Obituaries

Dear Suzanne and family, we are very saddened to hear of Paul's passing. He was well loved by you all and a great husband and father. I remember him helping out at Jonathan's birthday parties and end of school year pool parties when the boys were little and smile with the memory of him now holding the long pole & net trying to fish another toy out the water that had just been thrown back in again after 'clean up' time! It was good to see him again this Summer at the round of Senior graduation parties. We will be thinking of you all at this time and keeping you in our prayers. The Day Family.

Posted by The Day Family on December 22, 2016

Paul and Grandpa

Posted by Cousin Jeff on December 22, 2016

Four Generations of DeMarcos: Baby Peter, Paul, Ralph Jr., Ralph Sr.

Posted by Cousin Jeff on December 22, 2016

I'm so sorry for such a loss to a beautiful family. May Paul Rest In Peace knowing he has wonderful children. Mature, loving, sincere boys that will be by there Moms side and protect each other and take care of there family. Suzanne is one of the strongest,giving woman I have ever met! Her children are so fortunate especially at this time to have such a great Mom. ? Love Pamela

Posted by pamela interrante on December 20, 2016

From our family to yours, we're so very sorry. You are all in our thoughts. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help.

Posted by Chris Michaud on December 19, 2016

This photo captures a moment of enormous changes for all of us. Paul and Suzanne were married, homeowners, and parents of baby Peter. They came to my house in Arlington, MA for the last time before I moved to Arizona. Our worlds were full of possibilities about to be realized.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

Of course we got together over Thanksgiving during our first semester of college. Paul already had Hobart school spirit. I don't remember specifically, but I believe a number of lies and half-truths were exchanged about our early collegiate triumphs.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

Another photo from the same Florida trip. My twelve year old daughter looked at these pictures and said that Paul is the only one of us who looks normal by today's standards.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

After Joe Wargo moved back to Miami for our Senior year, Paul, Adrian Corda, and I flew down together to spend Winter Break with him. As you can tell, we were the coolest kids at Disneyworld.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

Al Nierenberg started a company called Shaddy Painting. Paul and I worked with Al. Paul was more diligent. I offered color suggestions, which we thought was funny because I'm colorblind, and then I got poison ivy, so they had to finish all my work.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

Same guys as in previous photo. Still thinking we were cool.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

This photo and the next one were taken in my parents' foyer in Bedford, NY, the Summer before our Senior year at Byram Hills High School. All was right with our worlds.

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 19, 2016

We are terribly sorry for your loss. Nancy, fond memories from Byram Hills High School. Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you all, from the Viviano family.

Posted by Christine Pelczar (Viviano) on December 19, 2016

Suzanne,Peterand family We are so sorry for your loss You are in our prayers and thoughts Let us know if you need anything Luv Lisa and Brady Farley

Posted by Lisa Farley on December 19, 2016

Dear Suzanne and family, We were saddened to learn of Paul's passing. Our sincerest condolences, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Posted by A.C. & Frances Providentii on December 18, 2016

Suzanne, Peter, Jonathan, Russell and Anna, There are no words to express how sorry I am that your husband/father was taken so quickly from you. I always thought highly of Paul as a husband and father and I know he loved you all deeply. It has been some years since we had the Jack-o-lantern contests at Bernie's and Jen's house but I remember Paul working closely with his children, particularly whoever was the youngest, to make the best Jack-o-lantern in whatever age categories the children fell into. Those days were so much fun! Please know that I have been praying for and sending warm thoughts your way for the last couple of weeks and I am confident that Paul is at peace and lives on in each of you. I imagine the next few days, weeks and months will be particularly difficult as you grieve Paul's passing. Please know that you will remain in my thoughts and prayers. Cathy (Kalmbach) Arventos

Posted by CATHERINE ARVENTOS on December 18, 2016

Dear DeMarco family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Words fail me right now. I have included some of my old photos, mostly from high school, that pretty accurately capture how much Paul meant to me, as he did for so many of us. See you later this week. Love, Steve Adelman

Posted by Steve Adelman on December 18, 2016

Dear Suzanne, Jeanette, and loving family, My sincere condolences to all of you on Paul's passing. I so wish I could have had the chance to know you all. Please know we are thinking of you and praying that your wonderful memories together sustain you through this most difficult time. Thank you for sharing the account of Paul's life - I understand from Aunt Elaine that he was dear husband, son and father. Such an enormous loss for all of you... With love and blessings, Cousin Renee Shalhoub Fregenal and family

Posted by Renee Shalhoub Fregenal on December 17, 2016